Last night, Ky was called to his mom's house at 1130 at night to go deal with her. She said she had problems breathing and the sisters didn't want to deal with it. So off he goes, missing another day of work which we can't afford, because these worthless girls are just that, worthless. She really does need to see a neurologist, I think she does have something wrong, she keeps having muscle spasms on one side of her body and this is not something you can fake. If you can I want to see it. I think it might have a lot to do with everything she says she is feeling. For now though, she is going to go to her "home town" of New Orleans and stay with her sister for a month. Flying makes her nervous and I'm sure the build up the actual flight is effecting her. Ky is going to fly with her to N.O, stay the night and come home Sunday evening. The oldest sister, who also has power of attorney, has stated now that she is tired of all the drama and she's moving out (we'll see). If that is the case however, and she follows through, Ky says he will have to move in there with her. Now this is a problem on many fronts. I like my house, even if it's technically not mine, since I rent. I own a pit bull and a Chihuahua. She doesn't want animals in her home. I can respect that. But I will not give up my "children" to go live there with him and her. I also would not be comfortable staying there as it's not my home, her English isn't very strong, so communication is limited, and I don't want to live so far from MY mom and grandmother. Nothing will be decided until I finish school, but I already know I won't be going with him. Does this mean the end of my relationship? I hope not. Hopefully something can be worked out, but I can't under any circumstances see me living in the same house as his mother and it's not because I would feel obligated to help take care of her because I'm there. I would help just because it's what to do. Now I'm lost and confused and don't know what to do.
This blog is for class, but I just might keep it going even if no one reads it. It's a good way to vent, if nothing else.
WOW....that is a LOT to "deal" with....I think that the best decision will be made, no matter what.
ReplyDeleteI know I will continue to blog as well, and I will definitely be keeping on eye on your blogs also. Keep up the faith and motivation. You can do all you put your mind to, and I know you are the type of person that does not let things get in the way of what NEEDS to be done. You are going to get far no matter what situation you have to face. I don't think it will be the end of the relationship, nor do I think that living in separate house should affect the relationship at all. I lived with one man in my life and I have decided that I would prefer to live in separate places, I think it motivates each other to go out more and cherish the time spent together better when you live apart. I hope all of this makes sense to you. I hope and pray that it all works out for you and that everyone will be happy with whatever comes to be. Take care and I pray that many blessings are sent your way. Be careful out there and keep up the good work.
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